Are you WRECKING YOURSELF with your WORDS?
Do you ever hold yourself back from going after what you really want out of fear or doubt of things not working out the way you hope … or that somehow you don’t deserve success?
Do you let negativity flow out of your mouth out of habit?
As rapper Ice Cube wisely says in his blockbuster song, “check yourself before you wreck yourself.” (The movie “Straight Outta Compton” had a big influence on me!)
This post is inspired by a few of my Get Gutsy University students and what they wrote in the forum in response to a question I asked.
I lovingly called them out when I saw their words getting in the way of their growth.
It was so obvious to me that they were limiting themselves and what they believed was possible in their business.
And I don’t let that stuff go … because my job as a coach, teacher and guide is to SHINE a light on POSSIBILITIES + POTENTIAL.
My response …Believe it + you’ll see it. Call it in. A lot can happen in 5 months. Receive it.
Watch your words. “My husband WILL be on board WHEN the finances from my business flow in. I trust it’s all lining up now. God, I thank you in advance for bringing me the clients who are ready for the transformation I offer.”
Your words dictate your reality.
Know this: you’ve got to be super mindful about what comes out of your mouth.
Poor mouth = poor circumstances.
How often have you spoken these words?
“I’ll never get out of debt.”
“I’ll never attract all the clients I need.”
“I’ll never grow my business.”
“I’ll never find someone to love.”
“I’ll never feel better again.”
“I’ll never figure out all this tech stuff to be able to have an online business.”
You MUST speak with FAITH to create your desired reality.
Don’t waste your words.
Breathe life into your deepest desires as you tap into the belief that you are worth your dreams.
When I look back on the 20+ interviews I’ve done so far with guests like Denise Duffield-Thomas, Ali Brown, Hibiscus Moon and Keith Callahan on my podcast, one common theme I’ve seen is this:
Relentless faith.
These extraordinary leaders from all walks of life spoke their destiny into existence.
If you are one of the MANY who fall into negative patterns with your words (happens to me too!), here’s a handy dandy guide for REFRAMING what comes out of your mouth so it’s EMPOWERING instead of making you feel like crap.
• Can’t =====> choose not to
• Should =====> could
• Have to =====> choose to or want to
• Try =====> will
Example: “You may not like putting your book writing on hold to help your mom, but
think about how the change of scenery will influence your writing.”
(Want to help clients reframe the way they look at life? Join us in Get Gutsy Coach Training School. We dive deep here!)
“Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you’ll start having positive results.” – Willie Nelson
You’ve got to believe that what you want is 100% possible.
I used to say HORRIBLE things to myself about myself.
I didn’t believe in my potential.
I wanted to see what would happen when I thought POSITIVE THOUGHTS, spoke POSITIVE words + took POSITIVE actions.
Success is truly an inside job.
What are you speaking life into?
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