You have to learn to trust yourself more.

Trust your heart.

Stop relying on the rational, logical mind to work everything out in advance so that you feel safe and secure. There's going to be a piece of you is in a flip the S out. Oh my God. I'm totally freaked out right now. Okay, good. You actually want to be freaked out on a regular basis. I get freaked out, but I know how to not get freaked out by the freak out.

Are you spending more time thinking about the problem or the promises? You know, we all have like quilt problems, issues, situations that we're dealing with. Are you spending more time focused on that? Oh, I don't have enough time for this. Oh no, where's the money. I don't know how this is all gonna work out because it enters into that.

And like, we're kind of looking at all that. We're putting our energy there versus what's the promise that's in place in your heart. What's the dream that's in place in your heart. What do you hear in your head? Okay. When you're truly in alignment with your own divine energy, okay. The cosmic force, God goddess universe.

You need to know that that force is sovereign over your circumstances. And so it might seem in the natural, or when you're looking at your, the situation. Never going to work out. I don't know how I was going to work out. Remember, your job is not the how, but it might look like, oh my a and you start, the mind is flipping the F out, flipping the S out.

How this ever going to work out? Oh my gosh. I'm going to be a failure. People are going to laugh at me. Cause they're going to talk about me. That is into that. Okay. Those circumstances, they don't dictate your destiny when something has been placed on you and your heart. And you know, you're meant to do it with this work, with this program that you want to put out with this retreat that you want to lead with this book that you want to write with this podcast that you want to launch with these clients that you want to serve, then no matter what you, what the, what look the odd look like you're doing.

You're good because it's all happening for you, but you have to decide, you have to decide on the regular. That is the spirit of the faith walk. You have to decide, you've got to be all in. You can't be all in today, but then kind of have one foot in one foot out tomorrow because, um, a prospect said no, or someone in your life, then you can't do that.

Or, how you ever going to do that? Or I didn't like the way that you did. Okay. And I want you all to get really honest and clear on this, because this is the shit that will predict. What's going to go down for you. I've been in this line of work for quite some time now, and I will see people have so much potential and I am so wanting that thing for them, but then they don't want it enough for themselves.

They're not fully in, and I can't make someone fully in if they're not fully. Okay. And so your job is to start weeding away, letting go, doing less of the overthinking, everything with my letting the mind lead, and then whatever else that you're doing that you know is holding you back from having the, doing all the things that you say that you want.

Okay. And so this is the spirit of this. Do less make more. Doing less of work, explaining yourself, doing less or trying to convince people. Aren't ready to do the work to actually work with you.

Doing last of second, guessing yourself doing last and discounting your prices because you're afraid to charge what you really want to charge doing. Last of apologizing for who you are doing less of having your stuff come behind everyone. Yeah. I doing lack of taking on more than your share doing last of hiding.

All right. Doing last of everything that diminishes the magic of who you are, that's what you need to do last of. And I want you to really get clear on what, what do you want more of? What do you want more of? Do you want to make more money? Do you want to make more magic? Do you want more amazing client relationships.

Do you want to make a larger impact? Do you want to make more moves? Do you want to make more love? Do you want to make, um, experiences that you just have a blast with? And you're so excited by?

So you can have more of what you want. Bring it into that. Cause it might bring up some stuff for you. Oh my God. I need to stop answering my phone every time that it rings. I need to stop responding to texts immediately. I need to stop getting pulled down the social media rabbit hole and comparing and despairing.
I need to stop sharing my dreams with people who can't hold them with me.

There's certain people out there you cannot share these things with you just can't, you can't. They will not be able to handle it. They won't. And they'll say something that isn't helpful. And then you start doubting yourself or you start getting pissed and then you're like ruminating and all those things.

This is not going to be the easiest thing in the world. You're going to need to stop hanging out with certain people. You're going to need to stop and be watching certain things on TV that just puts you in a really crappy place. And you can't sleep. Maybe you need to stop going to bed so late.

You need to stop. Drinking so much alcohol and maybe some of you might need to stop drinking alcohol together. Uh, maybe you need to stop eating certain kinds of food. Maybe you need to stop mindless snacking. So what is it that you need to stop doing? Do you need to stop?

Giving away free spots in your program because you're worried that there won't be enough in there if you don't do that. Um, do you need to stop?
saying I can't afford it when there's certain things that come across your path, do you stop doing that? And instead say, well, how could I afford it? Do you need to stop saying I don't have time. And instead say, What am I willing to do to find the time? Because if I cut out these other things, like the mindless TV watching that I've been doing, I actually have plenty of time for this.

Right. So I just turn out several ideas for you and I want you to really play with it and I want you to go down deep.